Drink and drive, then pay the price
By Patrick Fisher
November 26th, 2009
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Reading the back-and-forth issue concerning the publication of the DUI list in the paper is almost too funny. Quit whining about the consequences of knowingly doing something wrong and getting caught.
Fact 1: It is against the law to drink and drive in the entire United States. Everyone knows that! Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Fact 2: All who choose to drink and then choose to drive full well know they are taking a chance, and “feeling” that “I wasn’t that drunk” or “I was just a block from home” is not a reason or an excuse. There are always alternatives.
So, with just those two factors in play, those who choose to drink and drive are intentionally risking the minor issue of being pulled over and arrested, and the major issue of killing someone because just for a second the drunk was not aware or paying attention.
Have some made it home unscathed? Of course we have, and shame on us. And like anything else, it’s the nature of the beast to not take the defensive or complain — until we get caught! Then we start the blame game and the “Oh, poor me, give me a break” game.
Bottom line: Thank those law enforcement folks and good citizens who step in and may have prevented someone driving while intoxicated from killing our kids, our friends, our neighbors or even us. Apparently those who opt to drink, then drive, care less about others or themselves. So either man up or woman up and understand that when you get your name listed for the rest of us to read, you intentionally broke the law made to protect the well-being of ourselves and others. Live with it, pay out the big bucks in fines (apparently you can afford it), attend drinking driver programs, lose your license and/or your vehicle, or spend time in the drunk tank or get sent to jail. Oh yeah, and for you with young children still at home looking up to you for guidance, nice job on being a role model.
And for those who decide to drink and drive or just drive without licenses, whether from another country or not, you’ve got nothing coming. “I’m sorry” is not a good thing to say when you get stopped. If you can’t qualify for a license, keep a license and honor the privilege like the rest of us have to do to be allowed to drive, then understand you do not have the same right to drive and you need be dealt with. You are not welcome to drive on our roads!
Money, title, position in the community or other prestige areas of our lives allow you certain respects. However, when you decide to put yourself in the same category of those who drink, drive and get arrested, you have canceled all the above and become just another soul who acts as though they are above the law. You can stand in line to pay your fines and go to court like the rest of the people whose names are above or below yours in the DUI list. It’s not a hard concept. Don’t!
Stop whining, but thanks for the good reading.
(Fisher lives in Yountville.)�
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kevin wrote on Sep 28, 2009 4:42 AM:
Regardless of what California does, it is against federal law to use or possess.
People should quit complaining and just follow the law... "
Skip M. wrote on Sep 28, 2009 4:55 AM:
tsgets wrote on Sep 28, 2009 7:38 AM:
sprklsunshine wrote on Sep 28, 2009 8:39 AM:
Common Sense wrote on Sep 28, 2009 9:07 AM:
EverE wrote on Sep 28, 2009 9:34 AM:
post-it wrote on Sep 28, 2009 10:50 AM:
My only question is why only DUI convictions seem fit to print. Where are the drug convictions? What about convictions for spousal abuse, child abuse, assault, burglary, robbery, fraud, gang activity, weapons violations and arson?
Is DUI the most egregious of offences so only it deserves a monthly list of convictions? Shouldn't we shame all criminals equally rather than single out DUI? "
winewoman wrote on Sep 28, 2009 11:51 AM:
One of the problems here is that the DUI list ruins the lives of people who have the sames name as someone on the list. People have been harrassed, shamed and lost their jobs for merely having the same name as someone on the list.
Why do we (meaning you, the list readers and tongue cluckers) have such a barbaric desire for social flogging, social humiliation, social I-told-you-so, social I-am-better-than-you are?
Here's the real bottom line. The list does not deter or prevent drinking and driving. Where are the statistics, the trend analysis, the demographic analysis, the risk analysis, the preventative measures?
What preventative actions have been initiated as a result of this list? How has the list helped to deter or prevent drinking and driving?
You're right. There are none. The DUI list serves only as an outlet for pubic shame and ridicule - not as a preventative measure - but to make us feel good. How barbaric. "
kgirl wrote on Sep 28, 2009 1:32 PM:
Now that would be more interesting "
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 2:00 PM:
You also wrote, "The list does not deter or prevent drinking and driving. Where are the statistics, the trend analysis, the demographic analysis, the risk analysis, the preventative measures?" Exactly, winewoman! There are no statistics. So how can you then logically say that the list does not deter drinking and driving when you clearly state there are no statistics?!
You also question the blogger's "barbaric desire" for flogging and such. As one of the toughest critics here winewoman, YOU should have the answer to your own question.
But I think overall his letter was not meant to directly present any theory that the DUI list prevents drinking and driving. What I got out of his letter was that he was directing his dialogue to those who whine and complain that the DUI list exists. To get us to think of our own accountability. His letter gets an A++ in my book!
You do the crime, be prepared for all consequences. No whining. If you ended up on that list, you did it to yourself. As for an employer to mistake your name for someone else's same name, is ASSUMING. You know what happens when you assume. Winewoman, you would feel differently about the DUI list if someone you love was killed by a drunk driver. "
realitybites wrote on Sep 28, 2009 2:00 PM:
realitybites wrote on Sep 28, 2009 2:06 PM:
freeport56 wrote on Sep 28, 2009 2:41 PM:
those are questions to ask the register, not mr. fisher.
realitybites-
how does drunk driving relate to divorce? The consequences are very different. "
JustAnotherManicMonday wrote on Sep 28, 2009 2:55 PM:
Froggie1559 wrote on Sep 28, 2009 3:53 PM:
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 4:32 PM:
But for now, I say keep the lists going. The more awareness we can bring about drunk driving, the better. "
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 4:35 PM:
realitybites wrote on Sep 28, 2009 4:36 PM:
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 5:44 PM:
Skip M. wrote on Sep 28, 2009 8:07 PM:
winewoman: Addicts often minimize the impact of their particular vice. "
John Richards wrote on Sep 28, 2009 9:06 PM:
John Richards wrote on Sep 28, 2009 9:09 PM:
Please explain what difference it makes whether someone was killed by a drunk driver, a sober speeder, or a cell phone user? "
John Richards wrote on Sep 28, 2009 9:16 PM:
You've got to be kidding. Someone who has three or more drinks under his belt couldn't care less about the list.
I'm sure he's much more concerned about the hefty fines and loss of driving privileges. "
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 10:27 PM:
No difference. But driving under the influence is recognized as a distinct problem. So is driving distracted. But there just happens to be more publicity over the years about DUI. Distracted driving is a relatively newer recognition. Perhaps there will be a list for that in the future. It just happens, JR, that the laws are currently tougher on DUI than driving distracted, regardless of whether driving distracted is actually more dangerous. DUI related deaths also seem to get more attention than deaths for other reasons. Sure, the other violations could possibly be just as bad or worse, but I'd rather see some list than none at all. Maybe the laws will eventually expand to cover the others and there will be lists for those convictions. But for now, DUI is in the limelight. Blame it on the laws that give more weight to DUI, not on the media. "
hawkeye wrote on Sep 28, 2009 10:29 PM:
oldtownnapa wrote on Sep 29, 2009 12:21 AM:
realitybites wrote on Sep 29, 2009 11:02 AM:
napahawaiinapa wrote on Sep 30, 2009 12:23 AM:
No list is still my vote...no one really wants to drink and drive; it's when they really don't want to drink alcohol at all is when they will see it for what it really is. It's Satan and his greatest manipulation, and everyone's falling for it. "
winewoman wrote on Sep 30, 2009 4:05 PM:
Ever heard of a logical fallacy? Look it up because your argument is full of them. "
napahawaiinapa wrote on Oct 2, 2009 3:10 AM:
napahawaiinapa wrote on Oct 2, 2009 3:12 AM:
suncloud wrote on Oct 3, 2009 10:33 AM:
This spectacular DUI checkpoint certainly helps keep my kids safe on a saturday night. How about keeping them safe Monday through Friday and have a police officer breathalizing people leaving wineries? Guess THAT would be bad for "tourism". The biggest downfall of living in an area like NAPA is it seems that we only care about locals drinking and driving, not anyone else. A double standard that carries 5k in fines.
I also enjoy how most prescription meds say "do not operate heavy machinery" yet we don't hold anyone accountable that is on prescription meds and driving. Just because we can't "smell" medication, somehow allows us to politely ignore the fact that over 10% of us are breaking the law at any given time, with equally disastrous outcomes to other drivers. At least the police are doing something constructive with their time though. "
XMAN wrote on Oct 3, 2009 4:38 PM:
One thing we were all acutely aware of was the very high number of road fatalities per capita in Napa County. Way too high. Police were very tolerant in those days and people drank a lot. Even in the courts an accused had to be a 0.18 to get convicted of DUI (We called it a 502 in those days).
Admittedly we did survive and none of us were ever convicted of DUI in those days. At least, not that I know of. We learned at a young age that booze can be the enemy and we needed to control it lest it control us.
Did the police stop us when we were driving around and the passengers were drinking? All the time. On all those occasions the driver had not been drinking and the cops would give us some paternal advice and tell us to go home. We usually did because we did not want to get pulled over a second time.
The thing that impresses me about the NVR DUI conviction list is there are so many of them. You'd think they would know better. "
sickonapkins wrote on Oct 3, 2009 8:48 PM:
XMAN wrote on Oct 4, 2009 1:29 AM:
Without laws and the enforcement of them, the predators take over. "
winewoman wrote on Oct 4, 2009 10:08 AM:
Pfffffffft, cough, cough, exhale "
napahawaiinapa wrote on Oct 5, 2009 12:41 AM:
napahawaiinapa wrote on Oct 5, 2009 12:42 AM: