Dear Len & Rosie,
A good friend of mine died last month, and I have just discovered that he named me as his executor.
I haven’t the faintest idea what I’m supposed to do. I’m not an attorney, and I don’t know if I want to devote the time to it. I’m not even sure that I want to be executor.
My friend is survived by his four adult children, two sons and two daughters. They have never gotten along with each other.
I just know that they are going to start fighting over their father’s estate, which is worth over $500,000. Just last week they were arguing over who would get his stereo and television.
What is an executor, what does the job pay, and what can I do if I don’t want to do it?
An “executor” is a person nominated in a will, and appointed by the court, to oversee the distribution of a decedent’s probate estate.
The good news is that if you take the job, you get paid, and paid well. The probate executor (or administrator) gets paid the same fee as the probate attorney.
In your case, a $13,000 statutory fee for an estate with a gross value (before debts are subtracted) of $500,000. If the estate is worth $1,000,000, you’ll get paid $23,000, for more or less the same amount of work.
It will be your responsibility to gather the assets of your friend’s estate.
You will need to publish a notice to creditors to ensure that those your friend owed money to shall have the opportunity to present their claims for payment.
All of the assets in the estate have to be inventoried, itemized, and accounted for before the court will order you to distribute the estate in the manner provided for by your friend’s will.
Your friend may have a final income tax return due next April 15. The estate will also have to file an income tax return if it earns more than $600 of income during the course of administration.
Most of the heavy lifting will be done by the lawyer you hire to probate the estate.
Just follow the lawyer’s advice. The difficulty will be if your friend’s children fight with one another over every little thing.
Your friend’s possessions of sentimental value should be divided equitably among his children and, hopefully, they can do this on their own.
If they are fighting over the television, there’s an easy solution: Sell it to the highest bidder, or hire an agency to conduct an estate sale.
The real question is whether or not you want the job.
If your friend’s children are going to fight over an old stereo and TV, you may not want the hassle. Or, you may not be a suitable person to be executor.
You need to be honest, organized and diplomatic. You also need to be fairly good with your own money.
This doesn’t mean you have to be well off, but if you can’t get your own bills paid, you’re likely to have difficulties managing your friend’s assets. If you think you’ll get in over your head, don’t take the job.
If you don’t like the idea of having to put up with your friend’s children, you can simply decline the honor.
Nobody can force you to be the executor. If you feel your friend’s children are going to fight over the estate like dogs snarling over a bone, then the $13,000 fee may not be worth the hassle.
If you do not want the job, the next executor named in the will should do it, or your friend’s children will fight for the privilege of being executor.
Len and Rosie