LJ Montelli has served in some of the world’s most dangerous places and shed blood for his country more times than he cares to talk about.
Nobody in their right mind could say he owes America, or his hometown of St. Helena, another hour of his time. Yet here he is, the newest member of the St. Helena Police Department.
From Ramadi to Railroad Avenue, public service has been a constant for Montelli, who comes from a military family.
“Growing up in St. Helena, everybody knows each other and helps each other out,” he said. “But when you look outside our small town, not a lot of people help each other. I felt like I could help everybody by joining the military.”
The 9/11 attacks, which occurred when Montelli was 14, only solidified his plans to join the Army. He graduated from St. Helena High School in 2005 and immediately left for boot camp in Missouri.
Montelli had always been drawn to law enforcement, so the military police was an obvious choice. His first overseas posting was in South Korea, conducting joint operations with the South Korean army and training them to do police work.
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'Hearts and minds'
After a stint at Fort Lewis in Washington, Montelli was sent to Iraq, where he trained Iraqi police on how to do police work while having positive interactions with civilians.
“Our model was hearts and minds, so giving out learning supplies was a huge thing,” said Montelli, who was kept well-supplied by his mother, Lisa Montelli, library media specialist at St. Helena Primary School.
Like ours, Iraq’s social structure is hierarchical, with some people having more power and privileges than others, Montelli said. But unlike America’s, Iraq’s social hierarchies are extremely rigid.
For example, striking up a conversation with the local mayor is routine in America but unthinkable in Iraq, where people have an instinctive sense of who they can and can’t talk to and where they can and can’t go.
Regular Iraqis also have a unique attitude toward guns, Montelli said. They’re not fazed by the presence of rifles, which are commonplace, but they’re scared by the sight of a pistol. Noticing that, Montelli urged Iraqi police not to wave their pistols around to shoo people away.
“I told them I understood this was a useful tool, but they were instilling fear instead of trust,” he said. “Once you build trust and break that barrier, you can communicate and get things done more easily and safely.”
In addition to training local police, Montelli worked with U.S. troops to find and confiscate weapons caches and capture suspected insurgents, who would be placed under Montelli’s supervision once they were in custody.
Montelli downplays the injuries he sustained in the military. He’d rather recall handing out candy bars and Airheads to Iraqi kids and watching “The Unit” with the other members of his squad.
On Dec. 5, 2007, Montelli suffered burns and major head and lung injuries when a convoy he was riding in was rocked by an explosion. He was briefly treated in Germany before returning to his unit in Iraq.
It was only then he found out about an article in the St. Helena Star in which his family revealed his various injuries: skull and facial fractures sustained while clearing a building in Korea, two flesh wounds from enemy fire in Iraq, a concussion and compressed nerves sustained after falling two stories through a booby-trapped house, and then the recent explosion that had required doctors to drain fluid from between his skull and brain.
The article also told of Montelli earning recognition “for outmaneuvering the enemy during a firefight and spotting a tripwire,” as well as receiving a wedding ring in the mail from the widow of a sergeant who’d died in Iraq after telling his wife of Montelli’s life-saving heroism.
Montelli was taken aback to learn of the article. He’d joined the military to help people, not get clubbed in the head, shot, and blown up. He thought the article glorified the wrong aspects of military service and revealed things that were “nobody’s business.”
“It was like glorifying a parent who works 18 hours a day and then only spends four hours with their kids,” said Montelli. “People do things because they have to, not for the glory of it.”
He knew other members of the military who bragged about the decorations they’d received for valor in combat, but that concept never appealed to him.
“Most of the time in the military when you’re overseas, you’re just helping people, interacting with the locals, passing out food and learning supplies, or just talking,” he said. “I didn’t even know I had any awards until after I got back.”
Back to St. Helena
By 2010 Montelli had left the military and was back in St. Helena. He got a job doing construction work for Josh and Steve Galusha (“great people,” he said) and later as a welder/fabricator at Burgstahler Machine Works, but his ultimate goal was to go to the police academy and start a career in law enforcement.
However, the timing was never right for Montelli and his growing family to forego a steady paycheck while he attended the police academy. First, his wife, Tiffany, gave birth to their first child, Gia (now 11). Then they bought a house in Angwin. Then they had a second child, Serafina (now 6). Then Tiffany opened a store, now known as Tiffany and Kids, in downtown St. Helena.
Things finally clicked last year when LJ, with the approval of the “super-supportive” Tiffany, was sponsored by the city of St. Helena to attend the Napa Valley Police Academy. He graduated in June and was sworn in as a St. Helena police officer.
He’s now working alongside longtime St. Helena cops like Chief Chris Hartley and Lt. Justin Tharp, the same authority figures he remembers from his teenage years when he’d get admonished for riding his four-wheeler in Sulphur Creek.
“It’s been a delight to work with everyone, and to see how my impression of these people I met when I was a kid has changed,” Montelli said.
While on duty, Montelli likes to engage with people on a human level and make it clear that behind the badge he’s just a regular guy. Most locals have known him since he was a kid, so there’s already a built-in trust factor, he said.
“I’m able to talk to them sort of as a semi-friend,” Montelli said. “They think, ‘OK, I’ve known this guy for years. He’s not doing this to be mean. He’s just doing a job. He doesn’t write the rules. He just enforces them.’ So far everybody has understood that.”
“I’m a person in the community like everybody else, born and raised here,” he said. “I’m not just a badge.”
2020: Saluting our Napa County veterans
2020 turned out to be a big year for stories of veterans in Napa County, starting with the fact that we had at least five WW II vets turn 100 this year. We also brought back our popular They Served With Honor series and had a variety of stories of veterans being honored. Here's what the Year in Veterans looked like.
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100-year-old Napa native Hal Halloran looks back on his life and service in World War II.
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“They Served With Honor” is a 10-part series honoring local veterans.
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A former Navy nurse from Napa reflects on serving in WWII and evacuating the wounded during the Korean War.
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Louis and Sheila Daugherty of Napa reflect on their service in Vietnam, he as a field surgeon and she as a nurse at a hospital in Saigon.
Marine aviator Mike Beguelin reflects on his service in the Gulf War at the controls of the supremely powerful, but temperamental jet known as a Harrier.
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You can reach Jesse Duarte at 967-6803 or email@example.com.
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